31 maio 2006

Os sentimentos são ferramentas emocionais, inatas, postas à disposição do indivíduo pelo corpo (independentes da vontade). São utilizadas para restabelecer o equilíbrio emocional com o meio envolvente. São ferramentas para a sobrevivência.
O ciúme surge no corpo (nós sentimos e pensamos com o corpo) espontaneamente, sempre que o indivíduo percepciona um desequilíbrio desfavorável para si (desvio negativo) num afecto que considera importante para a sua sobrevivência.
O ciúme, como os outros elementos de regulação nos organismos vivos, gera um fed-back de realimentação positiva (no sentido de repor o equilíbrio).
Faz repensar a relação com o ente amado abrindo portas a comportamentos correctivos; como alteração da forma de relacionamento com ente amado, a renegociação dessa relação, ou outras acções que conduzam ao equilíbrio afectivo. Esses comportamentos são a realimentação do sistema no sentido de anular o desvio.
Porém, o sistema só converge para o equilíbrio (nível de afecto desejado, neste caso) quando a intensidade da realimentação não excede determinado valor (limiar de convergência).
Diz-se que um individuo tem muito ciúme de um irmão relativamente à mãe, por exemplo, quando a intensidade das acções por si tomadas no sentido de repor a “legalidade” do afecto da mãe, é muito grande – dá muito nas vistas – é desproporcionado.
Quando a intensidade da realimentação excede o limiar de convergência, o sistema de regulação diverge em vez de convergir. Isto é, o resultado obtido é e afastamento do ponto de equilíbrio.
Quantas mais acções de realimentação tidas acima do limiar de convergência mais afastados estamos do equilíbrio.
Por exemplo um homem que matou a mulher por ciúme (em 2005 registaram-se 33 casos em Portugal): Começou par agredi-la verbalmente (acção de intensidade acima do limiar) que provocou uma reacção negativa por parte desta, que fez com que ele percepcionasse um afastamento do ponto de equilíbrio (alias real), que ele tenta corrigir batendo-lhe (nova realimentação ainda mais acima do limiar), que faz com que ela fuja de casa … etc. etc. numa escalada de actos falhados que só lançam mais lenha na fogueira que ele quer apagar. Quanto mais desviada do equilíbrio é percepcionada a relação mais intensas são as respostas, mais errado está o comportamento.
Saber como isto funciona talvez ajudasse os actores a resolver alguns casos de ciúme que por aí andam (aos ciumentos e aos ciumados…).

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